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Introduction

Is there something that annoys you? Maybe it doesn’t affect other people but you really dislike it. We have an English phrase to describe a situation that irritates you and you can learn how to use it in this programme.

Transcript

Jiaying
Hello and welcome to The English We Speak with me, Jiaying.

Neil
And hello, I’m Neil. In this programme we’re talking about an English phrase that describes a situation that particularly annoys you. We call this a ‘pet hate’.

Jiaying
Pet hate. Let’s be clear – this has nothing do with animals we keep at home, like a cat or a rabbit – a pet.

Neil
It hasn’t. A pet hate is just something annoying – although something your pet does might annoy you! My pet hate is when someone doesn’t switch the lights off when they leave a room.

Jiaying
That is annoying – but not something I wouldn’t say I hate – hate is a strong word that means to dislike something very much.

Neil
True. A pet hate isn’t such a strong dislike for something – it is something that just irritates you – and not everyone will feel the same way. Think of ‘pet’ as something that is personal to you – so pet hate is a personal dislike for something. A similar expression is ‘pet peeve’. Let’s hear some examples of pet hates…

Examples
My pet hate is when I’m on the train and people are speaking really loudly on their mobile phones – urgh, it’s so annoying.

My dad’s pet hate is having to look for the remote control every time he wants to turn on the TV.

I have a real pet hate for the sound of people biting their fingernails – grrr, I wish they wouldn’t do it!

Jiaying
In this The English We Speak programme we’re talking about the phrase ‘pet hate’ (or pet peeve), which describes something that personally annoys you. It’s irritating to you but not necessarily a huge concern for everyone.

Neil
Yes. For examples, we wouldn’t say climate change is a pet hate – but as I said, leaving the lights on, which wastes energy, is a pet hate of mine. Hold on – weren’t you the last person in the office last night, Jiaying?

Jiaying
I was.

Neil
So, it was you who left all the lights on – very annoying.

Jiaying
Ooops, sorry. But I had to stay late because I had to clean up the place. It’s so annoying when people leave their empty coffee cups on their desks – that is such a pet hate of mine.

Neil
It just goes to show, we all have pet hates – maybe we should just learn to forgive one another.

Jiaying
That’s another one of my pet hates – people who pretend to be nice! Come on, you can help me wash up the rest of the dirty coffee cups.

Neil
OK. Bye for now.

Jiaying
Bye.

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