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Session 20
The Queen is taking King James' wine away, but is she being cruel... or kind? Learn how to use the phrase cruel to be kind and expand your vocabulary by learning six synonyms of cruel - and the nouns that go with them.
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Activity 1
To listen or not to listen, that is the question
To be or not to be, that is the question
William Shakespeare's greatest play, Hamlet, explores the themes of revenge, tragedy, death and madness. Hamlet also brings us Shakespeare's most famous quote: To be, or not to be: that is the question. Hamlet is asking a very deep question - is it better to live or to die?
To do
King James also has an important question to answer - should he listen to his wife when she tells him to stop drinking wine?
While you watch this video, answer this question: why is the Queen taking away King James' wine? Is she being unkind? (The answer's under the video – no looking!).
Watch the video and complete the activity

Narrator
It was a windy November day. William Shakespeare is at the palace of King James I. He's having dinner with the King and Queen.
King James
Mr Shakespeare, have some more wine. What's this? Water? Where's my wine?!
The Queen
Now dear, you know you mustn't drink too much wine. The doctor says it's bad for your health!
King James
No wine?! Madam, you are very cruel to me. Don't you agree, Mr Shakespeare?
Will
Your Majesty, the Queen is being cruel, only to be kind, like my character Hamlet, the Prince of Denmark.
King James
Does Hamlet take away the King's wine?
Will
No, no, your Majesty: Hamlet says cruel and terrible things to his mother, the Queen. He's angry because she married his uncle Claudius, very soon after his father's death. Hamlet suspects that his mother, or his uncle, or both of them, killed his father, so that they could marry each other.
King James
Well! No wonder he's saying cruel things. But how is he going to be kind, I wonder? Go on, go on…
Will
Your Majesty. Hamlet tells his mother that he said these cruel and terrible things to shock her into realising that this marriage is wrong – it's a sin. But he says she can begin to make up for the sin and be a better person if she leaves her new husband. That's why he says 'I must be cruel, only to be kind'.
Robert Harley as Hamlet
So, again, good night.
I must be cruel, only to be kind:
Thus bad begins and worse remains behind.
One word more, good lady.
Narrator
We'll leave them there for now. Shakespeare's audiences loved the violence and powerful emotions in his revenge tragedies. But Hamlet is not your typical revenge character. He's a thinker who becomes a man of action. In modern English, Shakespeare's phrase is usually shortened to I must be cruel to be kind. Or just cruel to be kind. People say it when they do something unkind that will actually benefit someone. It's the title of a song in the American movie 10 Things I Hate About You.
Clip 1
Cruel to be kind, it's a very good sign
Cruel to be kind, means that I love you, baby…
Clip 2
I know I upset her when I told her to get a haircut, but it was such a mess: I had to be cruel to be kind.
King James
Tell me Mr Shakespeare, does the Queen follow Hamlet's advice?
Will
I'm afraid not, your Majesty.
The Queen
She should have listened to him.
King James
Quite right, quite right.
The Queen
And you should listen to me dear. No more wine!
King James
Hmmm. To listen or not to listen, that is the question.
Answer
The Queen isn't being unkind: she is taking King James' wine away because the doctor says that it's bad for his health. But do you think the King will do what his wife suggests?
To do
We hope you were listening carefully to this video. Answer these questions about the video to find out how well you listened.
To listen or not to listen
4 Questions
How closely were you listening to this video? Find out by answering these questions
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How closely were you listening to this video? Find out by answering these questions
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Will tells us that Hamlet is "angry because she married his uncle Claudius, very soon after his father's death." Does 'his uncle' refer to Hamlet's uncle or Hamlet's father's uncle?Question 1 of 4
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How closely were you listening to this video? Find out by answering these questions
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If you 'suspect' someone, you think that they might have done something.Question 2 of 4
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How closely were you listening to this video? Find out by answering these questions
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Is he being cruel, or cruel to be kind?Question 3 of 4
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How closely were you listening to this video? Find out by answering these questions
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In English, we can use the verb 'listen' to talk about following advice. What does Will say when King James asks if Hamlet's mother followed Hamlet's advice?Question 4 of 4
Excellent! Great job! Bad luck! You scored:
How did you do?
3-4 correct - congratulations, you were listening well - unlike King James!
0-2 correct - oh dear, maybe you need to listen to this episode again...
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The song cruel to be kind is in a Hollywood movie called 10 Thing I Hate About You, but do you know which Shakespeare play this movie is based on? (clue: it’s not Hamlet!)
Click ‘Next activity' to find out and to learn more about the phrase cruel to be kind.
Session Vocabulary
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I must be cruel, only to be kind
Meaning
In modern English, Shakespeare's phrase is usually shortened to I must be cruel to be kind. Or just cruel to be kind. People say it when they do something unkind that will actually benefit someone.Example sentence
I know I upset her when I told her to get a haircut, but it was such a mess: I had to be cruel to be kind.___________________
Extra vocabulary
listen (here)
to pay attention to what someone tells you and do what they suggestcollocation
the natural way words go togetherput down (an animal)
kill in a humane way
a vicious circle
a repeating situation in which one problem causes another problem that makes the first problem worsetough love
a strict way of dealing with someone who has a problema cold-blooded killer
a killer who shows no sympathya nasty look
looking at someone in a unkind waya harsh punishment
make someone suffer in a cruel way for something bad that they have donea mean streak
unkind behaviour which is part of someone's personality____________________
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